Posted By Debra Shiveley Welch

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November is the month when we celebrate the gift of love through adoption. As an adoptive mother, I cannot begin to express the joy I have found through my beautiful son, Christopher, adopted in 1992. I was 40 when his adoption became final.

Some potential adoptive parents fear that finding a child is impossible for them due to lack of funds, available children, or because of their age. Subsequently, they are concerned that they will never experience the happiness of parenting a child. But you can find love through adoption, and through Special Needs Adoption, you can find a deep and satisfying parent/child relationship with the added knowledge that you are helping a child who is desperately waiting for a home, is in great need of an advocate…is urgently waiting….for  love.

to read more: www.associatedcontent.com/article/2397378/adoption_a_special_gift.html

 

 

 

 


 
Posted By Debra Shiveley Welch

Christopher

Since its 1976 proclamation as National Adoption Month in Massachusetts, November has remained a part of our National tradition as a time to celebrate the gift of love.  A little over seventeen years ago, such a gift was given to me when my seven-day-old son was placed in my arms.

As I gazed into the face of my baby, I could not have envisioned that a mere twelve hours later, I would fall completely, irrevocably in love.  I could not have comprehended that this "Son of My Soul," would capture my heart completely and forever hold it captive. Imagine my surprise at the reaction of some of the people I came into contact with, and the main question I was asked: "Do you ever wish you had a child of your own?"  

continue reading here:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2342798/do_you_wish_you_had_a_child_of_your.html?cat=25

 

 

 

 
Posted By Debra Shiveley Welch

Rick Finch's new CD "For All Reasons" to aid in research for the early detection of ovarian cancer.

Read about it here: 

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2301793/rick_finch_the_sunshine_and_beyond.html?cat=33

 

 

 


 
Posted By Debra Shiveley Welch

Recently I read an email from a young mother of a one month old baby born with cleft lip and palate. Her tearful post recounted a scene in her local grocery store earlier that day. As I read her account of what had taken place, I remembered a similar incident which happened to me and my son, and the anger began to build.

First, let me say that we mothers of children born with craniofacial anomalies are as proud and in love with our babies as any other mother. With today's sonograms and diagnostics, a mother often knows quite early in the pregnancy that her child will be born cleft affected. She has time during the pregnancy to mourn the loss of the child she envisioned and to accept that the baby she will bear will not be "perfect." And so, as she labors to bring forth her child, like most mothers giving birth, she is mainly concerned with birthing a living, healthy baby.

continued: 

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2218427/a_face_only_a_mother_could_love.html?cat=47

 

 


 
Posted By Debra Shiveley Welch
I Remember
 
I remember,
As I walked down the aisle,
To join my life
With that of your son’s,
 
You were smiling.
 
I remember,
When we came to visit you,
I couldn’t wait.
When we entered your home,
 
You would hug me tight.
 
I remember,
When you first saw Chris,
You cried with joy.
Cradling him in your arms,
 
You said, “Thank you.”
 
I remember,
Soft, nights on the lake,
When you and Chris would walk,
Side by side, his hand in yours,
 
You were laughing.
 
I remember,
Loving you dearly,
As if you truly were
My dad, my own father,
 
You are my hero.
 
 
In Loving Memory
William Martin Welch
May 13, 1918 – July 27, 2009
 
©2009 Debra Shiveley Welch
 

 

 
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